Anger is one of the strongest human emotions and, if left unchecked, it can destroy faith, relationships, and inner peace. Islam does not deny the existence of anger; rather, it guides believers on how to control, channel, and purify it so that it does not lead to sin. The Quran and Sunnah provide a complete framework for understanding anger and managing it in a way that earns the pleasure of Allah.
What Is Anger?
Anger is a psychological state that results from inner agitation and the desire for revenge. When this agitation becomes violent, it intensifies the fire of anger. A violent commotion engulfs one’s brain, due to which the mind and intellect lose control and become powerless. It is for this reason that such a person becomes blind and deaf to etiquette and guidance.
Anger is actually a weakness, although many people mistakenly consider it a sign of strength. In reality, it is like a spark that sets you on fire, and once you burn, you end up burning others as well. This fire not only harms the one who carries it, but also those around him.
The Devastating Effects of Anger
Although anger is a natural feeling, it has severe negative consequences when it dominates a person. It damages mental health, leading to anxiety, depression, guilt, frustration, and isolation. Along with mental harm, anger also affects physical health, causing headaches, eye strain, stomach problems, and even heart diseases.
Anger does not remain limited to the individual; it spreads into families and society. When a person acts upon anger, hatred grows between him and others, eventually leading to broken relationships and severed family ties. In extreme cases, anger results in violence, killing, and bloodshed.
Anger Management in the Light of the Quran
As human beings, we experience many emotions that are difficult to control, and anger is among the strongest. Out of His mercy, Allah has guided us in the Quran on how to deal with anger. The Quran repeatedly commands believers to restrain anger and respond with forgiveness, regardless of how difficult the situation may be.
Who spend in the cause of Allah during ease and hardship and who restrain anger and who pardon the people and Allah loves the doers of good.
Quran 3:134
What greater success can there be than earning the love of Allah? Repressing anger prevents situations from escalating into ugliness and destruction, which is why Allah has commanded it and praised those who practice it.
Examples from the Lives of the Prophets
Allah mentions the virtue of controlling anger through the examples of His prophets. When Prophet Ibrahim (PBUH) was threatened by his own father for rejecting idol worship, he responded with patience, peace, and prayer instead of anger.
He threatened, “If you do not desist, I will stone you.” Abraham responded, “Peace be upon you! I will pray to my Lord for your forgiveness.”
Quran 19:46–47
This shows that controlling anger is not weakness; rather, it is a sign of deep faith and trust in Allah.
Forgiveness and Restraint Bring Eternal Reward
When they are angry, they forgive.
Quran 42:37
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Anger Management in the Light of Hadith and Sunnah
Anger is among the whispers of Shaytan, leading a person toward sin and destruction. The Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ) prescribed practical remedies to control anger and minimize its harm.
1. Seeking Refuge in Allah
“I seek refuge in Allah from Shaytan, the rejected.”
Jami‘ at-Tirmidhi
2. Keeping Silent
If any of you becomes angry, let him keep silent.
Musnad Ahmad
3. Changing Position
If one of you becomes angry while standing, he should sit down if anger does not leave him, he should lie down.
Abu Dawud
4. The Best Advice
Do not become angry.
Sahih al-Bukhari
The Reward for Controlling Anger
Remembering the reward promised by Allah helps extinguish anger. The Prophet (ﷺ) said that whoever controls his anger despite having the power to act upon it will have his heart filled with contentment on the Day of Resurrection.
The strong is not the one who overcomes others by strength, but the one who controls himself in anger.
Sahih al-Bukhari
The Prophet’s Perfect Example
The life of Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ) is the greatest example of patience and anger control. Even when he was physically hurt or verbally abused, he responded with mercy, dignity, and forgiveness.
Anger for the Sake of Allah
Islam permits anger only when Allah’s boundaries are violated. This type of anger is controlled, principled, and never driven by ego or revenge.
Supplication Against Anger
O Allah, make me truthful in times of pleasure and anger.
Sunan an-Nasa’i
Anger is part of human nature, but a believer does not allow it to dominate his actions. Through the guidance of the Quran and Sunnah, Muslims are taught to restrain anger, forgive others, and seek Allah’s pleasure. May Allah make us among those who control their anger, forgive people, and walk the path of righteousness.
